Take a moment to think about your relationships and your life. Do you blame other people for your lack of happiness or success? Do you think if that other person would just _______, then you would be happy?
When you blame others, you are giving them power over you. A power most of them do not even want. But, in your mind, these other people have the control in determining your destiny. As a self-empowered, Fearless and Free type of person, I am sure the last thing you want is even the illusion of someone else in the driver’s seat of your life! Besides, believing someone else can make or break your happiness or success is simply inaccurate.
The first step to creating your own happiness is to take full responsibility for your life and its bounty. When you find yourself repeating the rhetoric, “if only he would do this….”, stop talking, take a deep breath, and reframe. Awareness that you are playing the blame game is the first step to stopping it.
I am curious to see what shifts for you when you reclaim your power. Drop a comment and share your insight!
Have an AMAZING week, and, as always, take care (and responsibility) of YOU!
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